Public Speaking Skills Success
How to prepare, write, rehearse and deliver your speech, presentation or public speaking program from the "Speech
Coach for Executives" - George Torok. This is a long article on the topic of how to be a better public speaker. In fact it is so complete
and helpful it has been compared to a crash course on public speaking. If you want to be a better public speaker - read on.
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First thoughts on your presentation |
Why you?
How can you get more done? By being a superior communicator. The secret of managing people is to master the art and science of communication.
Superior communication skills are a combination of listening, negotiating and speaking.
Public Speaking, Presentation or Speech?
Deliver your message with impact. It is not just a speech or presentation. I use the words speech, public speaking and presentations
interchangeably in this article. It is your message that is important. Your presentation is the vehicle for delivering your message and to create
results. A successful presentation is one that moves people to action. You know it was a success if after you speak, they buy, work or
follow.
First Rule of Great Presentations
A great presentation does not just happen. It is planned, rehearsed then delivered with flair. A good presenter is one who learns the skills of
presentations - not one who hopes for talent to carry them. Public speaking is a skill not a talent. You can be a good presenter if you learn the
skills for presentation success. You will be a great speaker if you learn from every presentation you deliver. Great presenters start as poor
speakers - then they get better.
Learn from other Great Speech Makers
Who are the public speakers you admire? Ask yourself why you admire them. What techniques do they use in their speeches that you can use? What
principles can you adapt to your presentations? It could be a great political leader, business executive or innovator. Whether it is a Churchill,
Henry Ford or Einstein - ask yourself, "Why does their delivery work so well? How can I use that technique or principle in my speech?"
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Preparing your Presentation |
Purpose of your presentation
You have been scheduled to speak to a group. An important question for you to review is "Why are you delivering this presentation?" Don't answer,
"Because I was asked." Instead ask why does this group need to hear from you? What message is so important that you must take their time to speak
to them? You must be clear on the purpose of your speech before you can write it. Please don't give a speech just because you are the boss. Don't
waste their time and embarrass yourself. Have something worthwhile to say. If you start by knowing what you want to happen then you will begin to
create an effective speech.
Your audience is the reason you are there
Understand your audience. What do they want? Why would they listen to you? If you want to reach them with your presentation you must reach them
through their needs. While you are talking they are asking themselves, "What's in it for us?" If you have not spoken to this group before,
interview a few of them before your presentation. Mention the names of some audience members during your presentation. It will help you connect
with the group.
Read Establishing Rapport with your Audience
Design your presentation backwards
One way to write your speech is to start at the beginning and write to the end. That is not an effective way to write a speech. Instead write the
speech backwards. Start with the destination and work back to the opening. You will write your speech faster and clearer if you start with the
end in mind. Know your purpose. Write the closing line that hammers home your message. Then write the points to support that close. Then write
your opening that launches you into that presentation.
Read Write Your Speech in Five Minutes
Presentation Structure
There are many presentation structures that you can choose from. For a business group the most effective is to state your conclusions first, the
actions required then follow with supporting information.
The most boring and ineffectual presentation style to use with a business group is the scientific method that many of us learned in school. The
scientific method starts with a problem, followed by a hypothesis, a method, results and conclusion. That sounds logical but most people in
business today do not have the patience to listen to that litany. We want the answer first.
Q&A structure
Another simple presentation structure that works is to tell your audience that you will answer the most common questions you have heard. Then you
state the question and answer it. This is one of the easiest ways to give a speech. It sounds like a conversation and you will find it easier to
remember. All you need to remember are the questions because you already know the answers.
Pain and Relief
An effective sales technique is to first reveal or describe their pain, fear or problem. Then you offer the relief to the pain. The relief from
pain and desire for pleasure are powerful motivators. Just don't dwell on the pain too long. Think 'plop, plop fizz, fizz.'
Illustrating your main points
We need images to understand. A good image for the accountant and numbers type is a chart. Bankers, financial planners and money folk love charts
and graphs. Use pie charts, bar graphs and piles of coins to illustrate and emphasize your points when talking to financial types.
Telling Stories
Tell stories. Paint word pictures that create images in the listeners' minds. If they can see it they are more likely to understand and remember
your message. The best public speakers are storytellers Use stories and anecdotes to illustrate and reinforce the main points of your
presentation.
The best stories are personal. Because they are yours - they are easier to remember and they make your presentation unique. We listen to stories.
We hate lectures. If you forgot that lesson - just ask your kids. The way to find personal stories that can be used in your presentations is to
write them down. Make a list of significant things that happened to you and those around you; the first time… the best, the worst, the biggest
mistake, the best break, the greatest ah-ha, the funniest moment, the most frustrating incident, the dumbest thing you did, the most embarrassing
moment…
The things that hurt you the most make the best stories to tell in your presentations. Rehearse your stories to edit them down into a short story
that is easy to listen to. The hardest thing for you might be to leave out details. The hardest thing for your audience is listening to you
describe unnecessary details. Just make the point.
Researching your presentation
Get your facts straight. Don't stand there saying, "I think so" or "I'm not sure." Don't lie and pretend to know something you do not. So spend
time collecting and confirming your information. Too many public speakers are quick to present their opinions without providing clear substance.
Avoid that trap.
Be careful of presenting hearsay as evidence - unless you preface it as that. You might interview customers for their comments or check with the
front lines for their unofficial feedback. That is ok - but present it honestly. Do a quick search on one or a few of the Internet search engines
to find some new insights on the topic of your presentation. These Internet 'facts' might not be confirmable so present them as what you found -
'Stuff from the Internet'.
Test for relevance
Review your speech for relevance to your audience. After every statement you plan to say ask yourself, "So what?" Because that is what your
audience will be asking. If you cannot answer this question clearly and succinctly - then rework it or remove it from your speech. What do you
want them thinking, "Yeah right on!" or "So what?"
Remembering your speech
The best public speakers do not memorize their presentation. Know the topic and the issues. Then make notes for yourself. But don't read your
speech. That is so boring. Instead write key words that remind you of your messages. Write your speech notes on index cards. That is much easier
to handle instead of fumbling with a sheet of paper.
Rehearsing your presentation
Rehearse your speech on your feet at least three times. It is okay to rehearse parts of it in your car or sitting at your desk. But because you
will deliver in on your feet - you rehearse the speech on your feet. It feels different when you speak on your feet. Get used to the feel of
delivering your presentation.
The fear of public speaking
Studies show that our number one fear is the fear of public speaking. Hard to believe but it is more prevalent than the fear of death. If you
have a fear of public speaking or feel some anxiety you are not alone. Even great speakers like Churchill experienced this fear. I am a
professional speaker who has spoken to audiences all over North America yet I also experience speech anxiety.
Overcoming the fear of public speaking
In most cases the symptoms of the fear are not noticeable to your audience. You might feel terrified but your audience doesn't know. There are
several ways to get past speech anxiety. Focus on the success of your presentation. Before you step up to speak take a couple of slow deep
breaths. Speak slowly. Don't let it run away from you.
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Delivering your Presentation |
Last minute details before you begin speaking
Get into the room before your audience arrives to check the setup and get the feel of the room. This helps to make it your room. Walk around the
room and sit in a few different chairs to take in the feel of your room and how your audience will see you. Check your equipment and put on your
busiest slide to check for readability. Drink one or two glasses of warm water to both lubricate your vocal cords and hydrate yourself. Public
speaking dehydrates you.
Emergency preparation
Check the exit doors and paths from the building. If an emergency occurs the audience will look to you, the speaker, for leadership and maybe
their lives. Be prepared to tell people how to leave the room and building. If it becomes necessary - do it in a calm, commanding and confident
voice. Public speaking carries the responsibility of leadership.
Your confederate
Always have at least one confederate. This is a simple yet important secret to presentation success. Your confederate should sit near the back of
the room so they can survey the room, help late arrivers and do things without disturbing the audience. They will take care of the lights,
handouts, ushering people to their seats and even asking a planted question. It is their job to head off problems before they erupt. They should
know how to work the lights and who to call when problems arise.
Eye Contact
Talk directly to people. The best presentation is delivered as a conversation to every person in your audience one person at a time. If you want
to be believed - talk to every individual - looking them in the eye. Don't make the big mistake committed by many novice public speakers -
staring at the spot on the back wall.
Emphasizing key points
If you want people to remember something - repeat it at least three times during your speech. The first time they might hear it. The second time
they might mull it over. The third time it might stick.
Read When You Have Something Important to Say
Establishing rapport
Talk about things to which your audience can relate. Don't talk down and don't baby them. To build rapport with your audience they must relate to
you. Don't pretend to be something you are not. But show how you are like them. Be human. Expose a flaw. Show that you are not perfect. If you
pretend to be perfect they will hate you - and not listen.
Read Establishing Rapport
Stay on time
Start your presentation on time and finish on time. If you start all your meetings and presentations on time people will learn to show up on
time. Do not repeat yourself for latecomers. If there is a small group at starting time then be prepared to 'start' with a discussion instead of
your speech. Those that are there will believe that you started on time and those arriving late will seat themselves quickly feeling a bit guilty
for being late.
Finish on time - even if it means leaving something out. For that reason - always get your important message out early. Never keep the key
message till the end of your speech. They might be asleep by that time. Position a small clock where you can see it so you know where you are in
your presentation. Don't commit the sin of asking, "How are we doing for time?" You should know - you are the speaker.
Deliver your speech with credibility
If you are the CEO, President or the boss - you have credibility by position. You can enhance your credibility by the sources of information you
quote. You can quote from a publication they read and respect. You can quote from a well known and respected person. You can quote from some
member of your audience - remember your research?
You can also imply credibility by waving a source document or book as you speak. Notice how preachers use this technique by holding the
bible.
Read Introducing Your Speaker
Help your audience remember the important parts
Repeat the points you want them to remember. Use an anecdote or story to illustrate the point. Pause just before and after you state the key
points.
We find it easier to remember images and feelings. If you want your audience to remember the key points of your presentation attach those points
to images or emotions. Men tend to be more visual with memory while women are more emotional. Be sure to address both needs in your
presentations.
Read Power of the Pause
Look your best
Smile. You look your best when you smile. You look most trustworthy, friendly and confident when you smile. We do not want to listen to a speaker
who is frowning. Don't grin like a fool all the way through your speech. Instead smile before you start. Smile when you say something important.
Smile when you end. Make it a warm friendly smile. When you smile you look confident and help to improve the confidence of your audience.
Sounding your best
Drinking water before you speak will lubricate your vocal chords. Breathing deeply and slowly will allow you to project your voice and pause when
you want to - not when you need to. Speak slower that you normally speak. The audience needs to hear you, think about it and internalize it.
Try these simple exercises to get your voice in shape before you speak. Yawn. Yes, yawning relaxes your vocal chords and opens the voice channel.
The second trick is to hum. Humming seems to set up a resonance within your vocal cavity.
Using equipment and technology
If you are using a computer projector and PowerPoint in your presentation then avoid the mistakes committed by many presenters. Ensure that your
slides enhance your points. Don't make the common mistake of designing your presentation around the slides. Instead, first create your
presentation then decide how to illustrate your points.
Read Power Tips for Presentations with Computer
Projectors
Read Tips on Presenting with Overhead Projectors
Ensuring success in your presentation Your audience does not know your script. Be ready to adapt your presentation to the audience and
conditions. Be prepared to leave something out. It might be tough on you but your audience does not know what you left out or forgot. Instead
focus on them and your message. If they get it then forget the rest of your speech.
Correcting things that go wrong
If you look and sound calm the audience does not know that anything is wrong. They might even think that you planned the interruption. When
things go wrong, smile, pause, breathe and sound confident. Adapt your presentation. Never display panic. Instead focus on your message and
what you want them to do.
Handling Q&A
At some point during your presentation you will offer to answer questions from the audience. Never do this as an afterthought. Don't make the
mistake of delivering and finishing a spectacular speech then opening to questions. That is a weak way to close. Instead before you finish your
speech, announce that you will take questions for "x" minutes. Then close off the questions and finish with your closing statement.
Read Handling Questions with Authority
Tame the Hecklers
How do you handle hecklers? Prepare yourself for the worst questions. No matter what happens - remain calm. The worst thing for you to do is to
react. Instead, respond and guide the audience back to your message. If you have established rapport with your audience they will be on side with
you. Don't alienate your audience by appearing angry or out of control.
If a heckler makes a negative comment you can respond with, "Thank you for your opinion" and move on. Don't let yourself get dragged into a dirty
argument. Don't give the heckler credibility.
Finish Your Presentation Strong
End your presentation with a strong message. You can choose from several techniques. A call to action is one of the best endings to get your
audience into action immediately after your speech. Other endings you can use include a rhetorical question; a positive statement; or a famous
quotation.
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Post Presentation |
Review your presentation and grow
Ask a trusted colleague to attend your presentation and give you constructive feedback. Be specific in what you ask from them; eg "How well was
my point illustrated? Did my humour work well? Did I connect with them?" Specific questions will get specific answers. The most important
question you can ask yourself is, "Did I make happen what I wanted to happen?" If the answer is yes - it was a successful presentation. Did they
buy, were they convinced, did they march in the direction you pointed? That is the measure of a successful speech.
When someone compliments you on the presentation be gracious and ask them, "What was the best idea or strongest message that you will take away
and use?" You might be surprised at what they 'heard' versus what you 'said'.
Leverage your presentation
Make your presentation more than an event and part of the process. Summarize key points and questions from the presentation in your newsletter
and send a note to everyone. Perhaps the speech would make a good article with some editing.
Read Daphne's Proof Reading Tips
Your next presentation
File your notes from the presentation so you can refer to them next time you present. Include in the file your comments about what you thought
worked well and what you need to improve. Include suggestions to yourself on what to try differently next time.
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Presentation Resources for you |
To become a powerful presenter work with a speech coach.
http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/
To learn the fundamentals of public speaking join Toastmasters.
http://www.toastmasters.org/
For an easy-to-use guide book on public speaking read the bestseller "Secrets of Power Presentations" by Peter Urs Bender.
http://www.peterursbender.com
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Final Words of Encouragement for you |
Public Speaking is a skill. It is not about talent. It is a set of techniques practiced, rehearsed and delivered. You will never deliver the
perfect speech. But you might deliver a powerful and effective speech. I know many wonderful presenters - but I do not know one who has ever
delivered a perfect presentation. Public speaking is both an art and a science. The more you learn and practice the science the easier the art
will work for you. You can be a powerful and effective presenter. But it will take time, practice and energy. And those are the elements of
greatness.
For more success with your presentations:
Speak well;
Speak effectively;
Speak with confidence;
Speak to make things happen;
Speak imperfectly - and speak again.
Public Speakings Skills Success
© George Torok is The Public Speaking Pro.
As a professional speaker he has delivered over
1,000 presentations. He coaches executives to deliver million dollar presentations and has trained hundreds of managers, sales reps and
professionals to deliver more effective presentations.
Yet George Torok was a shy high school student
who refused to speak to an audience. Since then he learned and developed the public speaking skills of a professional
speaker.
Contact him to arrange presentation skills
training for your business associates or speech coaching for your executives.
Call toll free in North America
800-304-1861 or direct 905-335-1997
www.Public-Speaking-Pro.biz
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